In Kingston, Canada, a man, his son,
and his second wife are on trial for the honor killing of the man's
first wife and three daughters. At Front Page Magazine, a
piece
about these horrendous crimes:
It is believed
Mohammad Shafia, a prosperous businessman who owns a shopping mall,
killed his daughters for the same reason that Aqsa Parvez’s father
murdered her: They were living too Western a lifestyle. Shafia’s
daughters would wear Western-style clothing, have boyfriends,
disrespect traditions such as the hijab, and be defiant of his
authority. They also apparently suffered the same mistreatment at
their father’s hands that Aqsa Parvez did for behaving so. One
daughter was even kept out of school for a whole year when it was
discovered she had a boyfriend. Shafia, however, was apparently
particularly hostile to the friendship and alliance the three had
formed with the childless Rona, which was probably the reason she was
also killed in this mass honor murder.
“They committed
treason on themselves. They betrayed humankind. They betrayed Islam.
They betrayed our religion…they betrayed everything,” Shafia told
Tooba, the murdered children’s mother.
To show perhaps he
isn’t completely unfeeling, Shafia also told his second wife he
becomes “consoled” over his daughters’ deaths whenever he views
the cell phone photos Zainab and Sahar took of themselves, posing in
their underwear or with boyfriends.
“I say to myself,
‘You did well.’ Were they come to life, I would do it again,”
the wiretap recorded him saying....
The Shafia family is
typical of some immigrant families from Third World countries with
strict religious cultures. They arrive in the West but never actually
live here. They want to take economically from their new environment
but still want to live their lives by the laws, rules, customs and
values of their country of origin. They want to adopt nothing in this
respect from their new society, believing in some cases their new
country’s culture inferior to their own and that it even poses a
threat. For them, integration is simply out of the question and no
attempt is ever made, choosing self-segregation from the host society
instead.
But problems often
arise when their children attend school and encounter values that
contradict those of the family’s, especially if a strict religious,
patriarchal culture reigns at home. Girls face heavy restrictions in
such homes, particularly in Muslim ones, and therefore can be
especially affected by a school environment where equality between
the genders is stressed, and they notice female classmates from other
cultures enjoying unheard of freedoms. Wanting to fit in with the
others and enjoy life, these girls then rebel against their
restrictive home environments, but sometimes with deadly
consequences.
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